First and foremost, I have to be clear: I am not a medical professional, and I am not a qualified psychologist — and that's a very good thing! It makes me different from the other people my clients have turned to for help, often unsuccessfully before. 

I've not been brainwashed by liberal academia, nor have I been trained to instinctively take the woman's side, as so many men complain has been the case when they've sought help from professional therapists in the past.

Many men don't actually need "professional" help, they just need a warm friend to understand and listen to them. Does that sound like you?

Of course, some people will require the help of a professional clinician. If you have serious medical problems, clinical depression, or are at risk of physical harm or suicide, please seek other help immediately.

Let me tell you a little bit about me and how this website came about. I'm a traditional tea-sipping Brit based in London, England. I've always had a professional white-collar career in a male-dominated environment — I used to work in banking. Together with having a wide circle of male friends since childhood, it's given me a real insight into the male psyche.

But more than that, for as far back as I can remember, I have had a deep empathy for men and the challenges that they face.

I am a woman that completely rejects the notion of "male privilege" and as such I have genuine understanding and compassion for the struggles men face in this modern, often gynocentric world.

Beginning in my late teenage years and continuing throughout my 20s and 30s I have regularly acted as a confidante to my male friends and colleagues. This just arose naturally, as a result of men sensing that I understood them in a way that many women didn't seem to. I helped them deal with their problems, with a sensitivity and maturity that a man, for example, would find it hard to do.

Over the years I've helped many men deal with some really quite difficult problems they've had going on in their lives and in their minds — often things which they've been too embarrassed or ashamed to speak to anyone else about.

I've often been thanked for being very easy to talk to. I'm matter-of-fact, straight-talking, frank, pretty much unshockable, and not at all shy where problems of a sexual nature are concerned — which is useful since sexual problems seem to be one of the most common issues men struggle with.

I've found this to be the case regardless of age or whether the man is married, and there's probably not a subject related to sex that I've not helped a man with at some stage, so you can rest assured that whatever your problem is, the chances are that I've heard it all before, and been able to sensitively guide someone through it.

Finally, I'm NOT doing this predominately for monetary gain. After over 20 years of spending many, many hours of my life helping men in my free time, I finally decided that to continue my vital role in supporting more men I was going to need to make this my main occupation now. 

So many men are suffering, very often alone and in silence, and I take great pleasure in being able to help someone through a difficult time in their life when they feel that things are literally hopeless and they are sinking under their own bottled-up emotions.

I totally understand how men get to the dark places they do, and that's why I think I'm so good at helping them find their way back out again.

"My wife doesn't understand me" is probably the statement I've heard from men most frequently, which is a real pity because your wife is supposed to be the person you turn to first. But it's a sad fact of modern life that an increasing number of men don't feel that they can talk to their wife or girlfriend, because they either don't feel that they understand them, or because they are actually the cause of their problems!

Many men don't have a wife or girlfriend, and these men cover a very broad spectrum, from the young virgin that is desperate for his first sexual encounter, right up to the damaged or lonely older man who might now be a self-declared "MGTOW".

You could be a man that's in a happy and loving relationship, but for one reason or another you just can't talk to your partner about the things that are bothering you. This is also very common, and in no way a reflection on your relationship. Rather, there are simply some issues where it's easier to confide in a stranger.

Some men don't need very much support at all: it could be something as simple as needing a woman's insight into writing an effective online dating profile or having someone to confide in. Men with more complex issues might feel that they require some more long-term support and need someone to talk to over a period of several weeks or months.

With a lot of the problems men find themselves dealing with, there's no one-size-fits-all approach. That's why I have a limit on the number of clients that I can take on at any one time: I want to provide you with the most personal service I can, and that means really listening to you, one-on-one, and talking things through, which takes time to do properly and effectively.

I want you to feel completely at ease that whatever your problems are, no matter how small and trivial or complex and perhaps embarrassing, just being able to talk to someone that understands you can be hugely beneficial in helping you move forward.